How Can I Find Out If My Husband Has Actually Filed For A Divorce?
How can I find out if my husband has actually filed for a divorce?
If you're wondering how to find out if your husband has actually filed for a divorce, there are a few ways to do so.
The first is to ask him outright - it's the simplest way to find out, but you may not want to do this because you suspect he isn't telling the truth or you don't want to encourage him at all. Another way is to check with your lawyer and have them check with his or her lawyer. You can also look for "service" to process paperwork in your house or at work. Finally, you can ask the court clerk if they've received any papers from your husband yet.
When you're trying to discover whether or not your husband has actually filed for a divorce, don't start by contacting his attorney. Let's look at why that isn't the best route. First of all, the attorney-client privilege—which is meant to protect clients in court cases—doesn't apply here, because you're not a party to the case and won't be in front of a judge. Second, if the lawyer tells you the truth and your husband hasn't filed yet, you may have unintentionally tipped off your husband that you're on to him, which could make him more hesitant to file in the future. Third, there's no reason why his lawyer would have any insight into this anyway; he or she will only know when (and if) your husband files with the court as well. You need someone who has regular interaction with your husband himself; someone who can find out what he's up to without raising suspicion. The best person for this job is a close friend or family member. Approach this person carefully and be prepared to give a good reason for your question that doesn't sound suspicious.
For example: "I'm trying to get organized for our tax appointment next week and I just want to make sure I have all of our paperwork in order."
If you have any questions or need a Divorce Lawyer, please call this law firm for a free consultation.
Ascent Law LLC
8833 S Redwood Road Suite C
West Jordan UT 84088
(801) 676-5506
